witch words

我是一个不善表达的巫婆
平时说话大剌剌
所以让人以为我是个什么都说的人
其实,越在乎的,我越不懂怎么表达
光临我的心境世界,欢迎多多了解我 ^_^

my faves


de frame // 27 Oct


My Nonsensical Cousins *lolZ*

witchology

The Spell b00k

beyond my world


KRISTY ~da sao
ELIZ ~SHR colleague
JIAWEI ~poly

starS world


FELICIA Chin
ELVIN Ng
NAT Ho
SUN YanZi

my memories


since Mar 2005

[2011]
Jan.11
Feb.11
Mar.11

chain of sequence

Witch -> Jiawei -> Queen -> Elmer ->
Princess -> Yong Jin -> Fairy

special thanks

skin: sixseven

~ happy cny~!!! ~

Date Stamp: Saturday, January 24, 2009


good things come in pairs. enough said when you see the below picture. a picture speaks a thousand words, so i am sure you will be able to identify my bandaged ankle. haha! ankle sprained previously was not recovering, so i went for a second round of twisting and turning by the sinseh. this time, i feel better but i really hope it is getting better. :'(




nobody can be happy with a damaged ankle. *pout*


enough of my ankle. hehe! here me wishing ALL OF YOU OUT THERE A HAPPY CNY. this year may turn bad due to economy downturn but it is a matter of time that all these nonsense will cease. dont attempt to jump off the building and i believe all these will turn for the better. :)


STAY HAPPY and be blessed with all the good things that may come your ways. Keep smiling!! :)

i am sure this year will be a better year for me, so i will keep smiling and wait for good things to come my way! :D


[[ End of Chapter // happy cny~!!! ]]

~ unforgettable birthday 2009 ~

Date Stamp: Saturday, January 10, 2009


my birthday is OVER~!!

i am thinkin on how to blog it.

i shall begin with the one and only bad news and then move on to all the good things and finally, end this post with only good memories. haha!

allow me to share with you a picture first.


Did you see anything wrong? my ankle was in a bandage. (-_-")

seriously, i find it totally unconvincing, unbelievable, unreal and goddamn hilarious! i actually sprained my ankle 2 days before my birthday, got it wrapped 1 day before and tada~ a present to me for my birthday. and because of this surprise, i have no choice but to stay at home on my birthday!! that is simply pathetic; i pity myself a thousand times more than all my friends who feel that way. haha! that is a very unforgettable birthday present i first receive in my lifetime.

the next present that i received and it really touched my heart.. is the trademark of birthday present in SHR - self made envelope with signatures behind and cash inside. HAHA! receiving this means i am not forgotten and i really appreciate that thought. feeling quite bad towards the 2 colleagues - 1 i never see before, the other 1 is minimal contact, yet they still have to contribute. nonetheless, thanks!!


oh ya, and not forgetting noel who got me a separate present - sling bag. she knows i will repel the tag, so permission is granted to remove. hehe! i wont remove it though; i prefer to keep it the way it is given to me :)


thanks gek han for the special efforts in remembering my birthday and getting me something which i was amused at first (i can't figure out the use of it) but come to realize it is in fact something very handy!

thanks lene for buying me a slice of brownie-lookalike. and the present from fairytale. she forced me to make a wish, and in the end, i gave a wrong name!! what the hell~

HOW CAN U GET THE BIRTHDAY GIRL TO LIGHT UP HER OWN BIRTHDAY 'CAKE'?????!!!



4 of my colleagues (alison, celine, vicy, jennifer) from Depot got me a 'get-well' basket. Hohoho~ i sprained my ankle and was mc on friday when the basket arrived. so instead of a birthday basket, i will rather take that as a get-well basket. hehe! i am recovering~ don't worry!! :x


colleagues from Chai Chee got me a watch and a keepsake box. very sweet of them to remember. hehe! thanks effa, thanks lye kuan~


leti and hueyling bought me a cake and we had it done at my house void deck, coz of my ankle!! super spoilsport~


leti trying to force out a double eyelid. HAHAHAHAHAHAAHA!!!


hueyling cutting and dividing the cake. the cake is NICE~!!


me posing with the cake and my bandage :)

to me, this has been a very good birthday. THANK YOU ALL FOR MAKING IT A DIFFERENCE :D


not forgetting to thank all who had smsed me (IN ORDER OF SEQUENCE!!)- noel, chris, zhiyong, tzer haw, mh, yanying, jasmine, alfred, cheryl, stefanie, lee lee, asnah, charlene, poh ling, alison, thomas, amelia, 4th aunt, yanting, elynn, yihui, celine, melvin + 2 unknown numbers.
i enjoyed my birthday this year! i believe that this will be a better year for me and i am working towards achieving this belief~!!


[[ End of Chapter // unforgettable birthday 2009 ]]

~ 文章:当朋友变成情人 ~

Date Stamp: Thursday, January 01, 2009


书名:懂得付出,才会幸福!
作者:吴若权

先从朋友做起,再发展爱情,这样的感情模式,是很多专家建议的。因为双方可以在“朋友阶段”时,就客观地观察彼此的各种面相,没有太多伪装虚饰,从此建立的感情基础,会比较稳固、实在。

吉美相信这样的逻辑,所以也很放心地投入感情在她和文民的友谊里。虽然双方都没有讲明要以“成为男女朋友”为前提,却经常玩些“故意搞暧昧”的游戏,也会在情人节互送巧克力,祝福对方找到伴侣。就这样抱着“即使做不成情人,也还是好朋友”的心理,少了患得患失的情绪,站在“进可攻,退可守”的战斗位置,两人都觉得轻松愉快。

但是,相处过了半年,当文民主动向她告白,询问:“我们能不能做更进一步的男女朋友?”两人的关系开始产生微妙的化学变化,恐怕是所有从朋友变成情侣的恋人们都要面对的习题。

首先要学习面对的是,吉美明显感觉自己对文民的占有欲增加了。从前他跟别的女孩讲话,说说笑笑、甚至打打闹闹,她都不以为意。但现在只要有点风吹草动,她就会加强戒备,担心文民的心被抢走。

对文民来说,吉美的心理变化,是他很难克服的障碍。从前,他欣赏的就是吉美大而化之的个性,他始终不明白,什么时候吉美变得如此小心眼?她原先的优点不见了,还多出个缺点。

接下来的习题,其实也跟上一题有关。从前,两人还是朋友的时候,聊天的话题百无禁忌,反而变成情侣之后,有点投鼠忌器。尤其文民很担心某些话题可能会让吉美生气,或使她产生“你好没水准喔!”的印象,所以变得有点沉默寡言。茫然不知情的吉美则十分自责,以为她做错什么、或说错什么,才导致两个人话不投机。

类似的转折还有很多,其实都是从朋友的轨道上要前进转向恋侣的路途时必经的历程。说穿了,就是彼此的占有欲、以及患得患失的心理作祟,导致两人在沟通时,感觉绑手绑脚、放不开。只要能够透析这些心理障碍,就不会被无谓的束缚所捆绑。

“朋友”和“情侣”,本来就是不可“相提并论”的两种关系。原先是“朋友”的两个人,一旦发展成“情侣”,双方都必须调整对待彼此的方式,并且重新适应。只要抱着“为了这份爱,我愿意为对方做点什么,也愿意为对方不做什么”的态度,诚恳地沟通哪些是符合对方期望、又不委屈自己的事,在这方面多多付出心力;哪些是对方深恶痛绝、而自己也能割舍的事,尽量不去碰触,就能让这份爱历久弥坚。

从朋友做起,再发展爱情,是先有“磨合期”之后,再开始“热恋期”;会和那些原本不认识就直接坠入情网的恋人,是从“热恋期”再到“磨合期”,有着很大的不同。但只要诚心交往、愿意付出,不论一种模式,都会是幸福的过程,也会有美好的结果。

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